The Secret Sisters Circle includes....
immediate access to the full Secret Sisters Circle library
immediate access to the full Secret Sisters Circle library
Guidance When You Need It Most—Available 24/7
Every SSC lesson is designed to meet you where you are — whether your heart is raw, your body is tense, or your mind is spinning. You take only what you need, at your own pace — because progress here isn’t about speed, it’s about care.
Many women begin to feel a shift after just their first few lessons—not just mentally, but physically, as their bodies start to remember what safety feels like—because these aren’t just teachings… they’re truth-filled lifelines for the exact kind of pain you're walking through right now.
When your thoughts feel tangled, you can enter a lesson that meets your heart right where it is.
The lesson library lives on a private, members-only platform, where you can access everything on your own time, as your heart is ready.
No deadlines. No pressure. Just steady, soul-soothing help available whenever you need it.
Because when your world feels upside down, you don’t need one more thing to keep up with—
You need hope that’s ready when you are.
Targeted roadmaps to get you exactly what you need quickly
immediate access to the full Secret Sisters Circle library
When overwhelm freezes you, these guides help you find just one next right step instead of navigating a bunch of choices
When everything feels too heavy to figure out, the Roadmaps guide you clearly and gently — so you don’t have to guess or do it alone. Think of it as a hand to hold while you take your next right step.
If you are feeling overwhelmed or immobilized by your circumstances you need clear, compassionate direction—and you need it now.
These focused, easy-to-follow guides walk you step-by-step through some of the most difficult and heartbreaking situations you face as the wife of an alcoholic.
No guessing. No searching. Just straightforward, grace-filled guidance that helps you breathe easier and move forward with confidence.
Each Roadmap shows you exactly where to start and what to focus on—whether you're navigating emotional chaos, spiritual exhaustion, or a relationship that feels broken beyond repair.
Because when your heart is heavy and your mind is spinning, sometimes the most powerful thing is simply knowing what to do next.
worksheets and exercises to move you forward
When understanding feels abstract, these prompts help you slow down and apply truth gently.
It’s one thing to hear truth that stirs your heart…
It’s another to know how to actually live it out in the middle of your personal, painful reality.
That’s where the Secret Sisters Circle worksheets, exercises, and reflection prompts come in.
Each one is created to help you take what you’re learning and gently apply it to your life—your marriage, your emotions, your day-to-day challenges with addiction in your home.
These aren’t homework assignments — they’re gentle guides to help you process what’s already in your heart. One question at a time, one short reflection, whenever you feel ready.
Whether you print them or fill them out digitally, they’re here to help you not just learn—but transform.
powerful tools to move you out of uncertainty and overwhelm and into empowered action
powerful tools to move you out of uncertainty and overwhelm and into empowered action
One of the most cherished features inside of the Secret Sisters Circle is the Toolbox—a powerful collection of practical, faith-centered tools designed to help you rise above the chaos.
These aren't just strategies—they’re lifelines.
They’re reminders that you are not powerless, and that God has equipped you for such a time as this.
With these go-to resources, you’ll no longer freeze up in the face of overwhelm, broken promises, or emotional triggers. You'll understand why your body reacts the way it does and have gentle tools to help it settle.
Instead, you’ll respond with peace, clarity, and godly wisdom—because you’ll be spiritually grounded and emotionally prepared.
too busy to watcH the lessons? Listen to the private audio feed
powerful tools to move you out of uncertainty and overwhelm and into empowered action
too busy to watcH the lessons? Listen to the private audio feed
Life doesn’t slow down just because your heart is heavy.
That’s exactly why we created the Secret Sisters Circle private audio feed—so you can receive encouragement, truth, and practical guidance right in the middle of your real life.
Whether you're walking the dog with tears in your eyes, driving to work with a prayer on your lips, or getting ready for another day of trying to hold it all together—you can bring the hope and strength of the SSC lessons with you.
This private, podcast-style feed gives you easy access to every teaching, so you can listen anytime, anywhere.
Because sometimes, hearing the right words at the right moment can change everything.
The Secret Sisters Private group
powerful tools to move you out of uncertainty and overwhelm and into empowered action
too busy to watcH the lessons? Listen to the private audio feed
When you feel unseen and unknown, the private circle reminds you: you are truly known and not alone.
That's why one of the greatest gifts inside the Secret Sisters Circle is the private community—a sacred space where you can exhale, be seen, and be gently reminded that you are not the only one living this hard story.
This isn’t just a group. It’s a circle of faith-filled women who truly get it—who know what it’s like to carry the weight of a loved one’s addiction, and who are committed to walking in healing, hope, and God’s strength together.
You don’t have to post to belong. You don’t have to be ‘ready’ to connect. Simply being here — reading, listening, pausing — means you are part of a circle that sees you, hears you, and cares.
Housed on a private, members-only platform, this group is a safe refuge—just for Secret Sisters like you.
A place to be lifted up when you're weary… and to lift others when your heart is feeling strong.
Because healing happens in community. And you were never meant to carry this burden alone.
(PS: Group participation is optional. You do not have to join the support group to have access to everything else)
PLEASE DON'T TRY TO DO THIS ALONE
I tried to handle/manage my husband's addiction and all of the fallout from it by myself, and it was one of the biggest mistakes I've ever made.
There is help. There is hope. And I would be honored to play a part in guiding you there.
I hope to meet you inside the Secret Sisters Circle.
In His Grace,
Julie
Julie Sanford is a wife and mom of three who found herself in a situation she never wanted to be in as the wife of an alcoholic.
After navigating that incredibly difficult road for several years, and walking with her husband all the way through the darkness of addiction and into sobriety, God called her to use every bit of it for good.
Julie now helps other wives of alcoholics navigate their husband's addiction without losing themselves in the process, and shows them how to restore their often troubled relationship with God while honoring how their whole person—mind, body, and spirit—has been affected by this journey.
The membership is discreetly billed as 'Women's Ministries'. If you are concerned about confidentiality it is also suggested that you sign up with an email address that only you have access to since that is where the log-in credentials for the program will be sent.
Please note the following:
-This program is not meant for those in an abusive relationship. If there is even the possibility of any sort of abuse in your situation you need to get to a safe place first and foremost.
-Every situation/person/marriage is different so there is no specific outcome or result guaranteed from this membership.
-All SSC content is pulled from my own experiences and my work with other wives of alcoholics over the years. I am a mentor, not a therapist or counselor.
-The Secret Sisters Circle is a faith-based membership.
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