Your membership will include....
immediate access to the full Secret Sisters Circle library
immediate access to the full Secret Sisters Circle library
Wisdom When You Need It Most—Right at Your Fingertips
Inside the Secret Sisters Circle Library, you’ll find dozens of lovingly created lessons to give you clear direction in your struggle, speak to your heart, and gently guide you back to God’s peace and perspective.
Many women begin to feel a shift after just their first few lessons—because these aren’t just teachings… they’re truth-filled lifelines for the exact kind of pain you're walking through right now.
Whether you’re facing a painful decision, feeling lost in the chaos, or needing clarity on how to respond to your husband’s behavior—you’ll find solid, grace-filled guidance here.
The entire library lives on a private, members-only platform, where you can access everything on your own time, as your heart is ready.
No deadlines. No pressure. Just steady, soul-soothing help available 24/7.
Because when your world feels upside down, you don’t need one more thing to keep up with—
You need hope that’s ready when you are.
Targeted roadmaps to get you exactly what you need quickly
immediate access to the full Secret Sisters Circle library
Clarity in the Chaos—Help for What You’re Facing Right Now
When you’re in the thick of it—emotionally drained, overwhelmed, or unsure which way to turn—you don’t have time to sift through a lot of information.
If you are feeling overwhelmed or immobilized by your circumstances you need clear, compassionate direction—and you need it now.
That’s why we created the Secret Sisters Circle Targeted Roadmaps.
These focused, easy-to-follow guides walk you step-by-step through some of the most difficult and heartbreaking situations you face as the wife of an alcoholic.
No guessing. No searching. Just straightforward, grace-filled guidance that helps you breathe easier and move forward with confidence.
Each Roadmap shows you exactly where to start and what to focus on—whether you're navigating emotional chaos, spiritual exhaustion, or a relationship that feels broken beyond repair.
Because when your heart is heavy and your mind is spinning, sometimes the most powerful thing is simply knowing what to do next.
The SSC Roadmaps cover things like:
- Boundaries
- Communicating with Your Husband
- Reducing the Chaos in Your Home
- Getting Back on Track
- Your Husband's Addiction
- Your Husband's Recovery
- Navigating the Future
- Feeling Triggered
- Pulling Yourself Out of a Spiral
worksheets and exercises to move you forward
From Learning to Living It—With God’s Wisdom in Every Step
It’s one thing to hear truth that stirs your heart…
It’s another to know how to actually live it out in the middle of your personal, painful reality.
That’s where the Secret Sisters Circle worksheets, exercises, and reflection prompts come in.
Each one is created to help you take what you’re learning and gently apply it to your life—your marriage, your emotions, your day-to-day challenges with addiction in your home.
These tools invite you to slow down, seek God’s voice, and uncover the next faithful step forward.
Whether you print them or fill them out digitally, they’re here to help you not just learn—but transform.
Because true growth doesn’t happen in theory.
It happens in the quiet places where you let God meet you -- ready to hear with an open heart.
powerful tools to move you out of uncertainty and overwhelm and into empowered action
powerful tools to move you out of uncertainty and overwhelm and into empowered action
One of the most cherished features inside of the Secret Sisters Circle is the Toolbox—a powerful collection of practical, faith-centered tools designed to help you rise above the chaos.
These aren't just strategies—they’re lifelines.
They’re reminders that you are not powerless, and that God has equipped you for such a time as this.
With these go-to resources, you’ll no longer freeze up in the face of overwhelm, broken promises, or emotional triggers.
Instead, you’ll respond with peace, clarity, and godly wisdom—because you’ll be spiritually grounded and emotionally prepared.
too busy to watcH the lessons? Listen to the private audio feed
powerful tools to move you out of uncertainty and overwhelm and into empowered action
too busy to watcH the lessons? Listen to the private audio feed
Life doesn’t slow down just because your heart is heavy.
That’s exactly why we created the Secret Sisters Circle private audio feed—so you can receive encouragement, truth, and practical guidance right in the middle of your real life.
Whether you're walking the dog with tears in your eyes, driving to work with a prayer on your lips, or getting ready for another day of trying to hold it all together—you can bring the hope and strength of the SSC lessons with you.
This private, podcast-style feed gives you easy access to every teaching, so you can listen anytime, anywhere.
Because sometimes, hearing the right words at the right moment can change everything.
The Secret Sisters Private group
powerful tools to move you out of uncertainty and overwhelm and into empowered action
too busy to watcH the lessons? Listen to the private audio feed
You weren't meant to walk this road alone.
That's why one of the greatest gifts inside the Secret Sisters Circle is the private community—a sacred space where you can exhale, be seen, and be gently reminded that you are not the only one living this hard story.
This isn’t just a group. It’s a circle of faith-filled women who truly get it—who know what it’s like to carry the weight of a loved one’s addiction, and who are committed to walking in healing, hope, and God’s strength together.
Inside, you’ll find:
- Honest connection without judgment
- Encouragement on the days you want to give up
- Gentle check-ins to keep you grounded
- Practical tips and Christ-centered inspiration to help you stay on course
Housed on a private, members-only platform, this group is a safe refuge—just for Secret Sisters like you.
A place to be lifted up when you're weary… and to lift others when your heart is feeling strong.
Because healing happens in community. And you were never meant to carry this burden alone.
PLEASE DON'T TRY TO DO THIS ALONE
I tried to handle/manage my husband's addiction and all of the fallout from it by myself, and it was one of the biggest mistakes I've ever made.
There is help. There is hope. And I would be honored to play a part in guiding you there.
I hope to see you inside the membership.
In His Grace,
Julie
Julie Sanford is a wife and mom of three who found herself in a situation she never wanted to be in as the wife of an alcoholic.
After navigating that incredibly difficult road for several years, and walking with her husband all the way through the darkness of addiction and into sobriety, God called her to use every bit of it for good.
Julie now helps other wives of alcoholics navigate their husband's addiction without losing themselves in the process, and shows them how to restore their often troubled relationship with God.
The membership is discreetly billed as 'Women's Ministries'. If you are concerned about confidentiality it is also suggested that you sign up with an email address that only you have access to since that is where the log-in credentials for the program will be sent.
Please note the following:
-This program is not meant for those in an abusive relationship. If there is even the possibility of any sort of abuse in your situation you need to get to a safe place first and foremost.
-Every situation/person/marriage is different so there is no specific outcome or result guaranteed from this membership.
-All SSC content is pulled from my own experiences and my work with other wives of alcoholics over the years. I am a mentor, not a therapist or counselor.
-The Secret Sisters Circle is a faith-based membership.
Free guided online journal for wives of alcoholics
If you’ve been living with the quiet pain of a husband who drinks too much, you’ve probably asked yourself:
“Am I overreacting?”
“Is his drinking really a problem?”
“What can I even do if it is?”
The What Now Private Online Journal was created to help you stop spinning in those questions—and start finding real, honest answers.