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"I wish I had joined sooner. 

I was hesitant because I wasn't sure online support would be enough. However, the videos and daily chats are amazing. 

I also appreciate that when I am struggling in a certain moment or situation, I have access to content right away, and I feel less alone."

"Having a place to go and just feel seen and not alone was so important. Also learning to disconnect from my husband’s addiction was huge for me after 25 years of codependency. 

I think my boundaries were what finally pushed my husband to seek help. He is now in counseling and on medication for his depression and has not had a drink in a few weeks."

"I had a great experience in the SSC.
I have a much greater understanding of how to support my husband as he works through his addiction. I have learned to give up my desire to control the circumstances that are beyond my control and have gained so much peace. 

What sets this group apart is the focus on God and on building our relationship with Jesus. As a Christian wife, this was a crucial piece for me that I could not find anywhere else. The support from other women who are walking the same path is so encouraging. God is using the SSC in powerful ways!" 

”I was very caught up in my husband's addiction and didn't realize how much I was letting it completely run our lives. SSC helped me learn what boundaries are, how to put them in place and stand by them. It helped me detach more from the addiction, so I could actually be more myself and help my kids through our rough spots. It was a huge eye opener for me all the way around and was a huge blessing. 

SSC is something I have told multiple friends about who are in similar situations to my because the community and trainings are so amazing. This dropped into my life just as I was giving up hope in everything and was about to leave my fiance because of addiction; now we are on a much better path in our faith and together, but as individuals. Thank you so much!”

“The compassion and understanding I have been able to find of my husbands addiction has brought so much peace to my home. 

I’ve seen a huge difference in him and our kids.
Not to mention, I have found a way to navigate through this messy life without feeling like I’m walking on egg shells.”

"I cannot tell you how unbelievably thankful I am for this group and for all of the work you have put into this. I have listened to your podcast for probably a year now and debated joining for a year. I finally did and it has been life changing. 

I am just so glad I listened when the Lord nudged me to join. THANK YOU AGAIN!!!”

“My husband has been sober for 2 months now and things are much better in our lives. This group was such a Godsend when I truly needed it. The lessons were very helpful and having the secret sister community was so comforting and helpful during some dark days of my life. This is a wonderful program. Thank you so much!”

"I just wanted to send you an email and say that your program is literally changing my life... when I first started I will admit that I didn't think it could help me. I didn't think anything could help me and I was in SUCH a dark place! 

God is literally transforming my heart and mind through this program and the tools. Thank you!!!"

“I am new. I can't believe how much the tools are already helping me not only with my husband but with any stressful situation. I feel so comfortable here, there is no pressure and I am not being judged and that feels amazing. The tools and podcasts have made me realize that I am important and that I need to make myself a priority. I know that I found this group for a reason and I am so glad I did....Thank You”

“I can’t even express how blessed I feel to be a part of this group! Just reading through the posts this morning, I relate to so many of them, and to see the support and tools available is so encouraging. I have been trying to fight this battle for close to 20 years to no avail I am finally able to begin to see the battle is not mine but the Lords. And I’ve only been on here a week! I can’t wait to dive into the lessons and learn more.”

"The program if full of helpful, excellent lessons that help to transform you into a very peaceful, knowledgeable, spiritual individual. You will not be the same person, you'll be your best self!." 

“I just need to say how incredibly thankful I am for this group. From the teachings to the incredibly gracious people, this has been the only thing that has actually been a consistent, helpful thing. 

I am amazed at how quickly people who haven’t been in the trenches of alcohol start giving “encouragement” that is nothing more than I am sorry or “praying for you” but they don’t want to continue to be there to stand with you IN it. It can be very lonely. 

I appreciate that if I need a place to come and vent, to be encouraged, to have people actually pray, care and love, I know I can come here and there are sisters who will be there. Thankful and blessed by all of you.”

All lesson topics are designed to help you with all of the real-life issues that you probably come up against frequently as the wife of an alcoholic, so you dno longer have to feel lost and confused.

The coaching lessons are delivered to you on a private Membership Platform where you can go through them on-demand at a time/schedule that's convenient for you.

Each lesson includes a video plus a worksheet, exercise, or questions to answer so you can learn how to implement what you are learning. 

It's one thing to learn new concepts and practical applications, but it's quite another to know how to apply what you've learned to your particular situation.

The SSC worksheets, exercises, and thought-provoking questions are designed to help you do just that, and are both printable and  electronically fillable. 

The Secret Sisters Circle Library contains the entire back-catalog of every lesson ever presented in the membership, categorized by topic.

If you need help ASAP with a certain situation, or direction/clarification around a specific challenge you're encountering with your husband, you will find it here, grouped by topic for easy access.

 Enrollment includes access to over 60 on-demand lessons to help you navigate most any situation you could come up against as the wife of an alcoholic. 

The Secret Sisters Circle private audio feed allows you to listen to all of the SSC lessons wherever you are in a podcast-style format.

Whether you're walking the dog, driving to work, or getting ready in the morning you can now easily access all of the lessons in a way that fits your life.

The Secret Sisters Circle private group is a warm and encouraging place for you to interact with other women who are in the same situation you are.

Peer support and encouragement keeps you from feeling alone, and you will find it here, along with tips, inspiration, and check-ins to keep you on track.

The Secret Sisters Circle group is housed on a private platform, and is for SSC members only.