Navigating your most challenging marriage struggles takes a whole lot more than just trying to get your husband to go to counseling.
It feels like you’re doing it all to try to keep your marriage together without losing yourself.
You’ve tried looking for solutions for your husband’s specific struggle (whether it’s addiction, infidelity, porn use, or something else).
And you’re desperately praying for change.
But nothing seems to be changing for the better. Or maybe things are even getting worse.
Maybe right now you....
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Navigating your most challenging marriage struggles takes a whole lot more than just trying to get your husband to go to counseling.
It feels like you’re doing it all to try to keep your marriage together without losing yourself.
You’ve tried looking for solutions for your husband’s specific struggle (whether it’s addiction, infidelity, porn use, or something else).
And you’re desperately praying for change.
But nothing seems to be changing for the better. Or maybe things are even getting worse.
The Struggles We Face
From Hurt to Healing: Reclaiming JOY & Purpose After Intimate Betrayal by Monica Mundell
We’ll explore how to embrace healing through faith, rediscover JOY, and align with your God-given purpose.
You’ll leave with practical tools to process your emotions, cultivate gratitude, and build a future filled with hope and renewal.
Secrets To Enjoying Life and Having Hope After Finding Out About Your Husband's Pornography Use by Beth Brunk
Discovering a partner's use of pornography can be a painful experience, often leading to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt.
In this presentation, we will discuss:
- the importance of recognizing the underlying issues behind pornography use
- how to establish priorities and set healthy boundaries to protect yourself from further emotional harm
- essential do's and don'ts when addressing a partner's pornography use
Finding Stability Amidst Chaos: A Guide for Wives of Alcoholic and Addicted Husbands by Julie Sanford
Being married to an addicted husband brings all sorts of chaos into our lives. We find ourselves constantly on ‘high alert‘. It’s exhausting.
It’s also really hard to know what to do, and sometimes we’re even told that there’s *nothing* we can do, which just leads to feelings of hopelessness.
But the truth is that there are things you can do to better your situation, even now.
In this presentation I will share with you five things that you must do if you are the wife of an alcoholic or addict. These things will bring you back to center, give you direction, and offer you encouragement and hope.
When Dreams are Shattered: Navigating Marital Grief and Finding God's Restoration by Jennifer Shook
This session will guide women through the painful reality of grieving the marriage they once envisioned, offering comfort and hope through God’s healing and restoration.
It will address the deep hurt caused by unmet expectations, betrayal, and loss in a marriage, while emphasizing that God can bring beauty from the brokenness.
You will leave with practical tools and spiritual encouragement for navigating grief and trusting in God’s plan for healing and restoration.
From Surviving to Significance: How to Find Healing and Empowerment in the Midst of Imbalanced Relationships by Stephanie Tucker
This presentation will focus on the importance of understanding the mode of survival when we are in relationship with someone who isn't able to meet our needs.
You will learn how to navigate personal healing and empowerment to nurture an environment of personal transformation.
Finding identity in Jesus is the catalyst where we develop confidence, security, boundaries and hope. And in focusing on the development of our unique purpose in Christ, our partner will impacted not by our efforts to change them, but by seeing change in us.
The Strategies we need
From Emotional Chaos to Emotional Confidence: Practical Help for Managing Difficult Feelings in a Troubled Marriage by Alicia Michelle
Have your marriage struggles left you emotionally drained?
In this session, we’ll tackle the heavy emotions that come with addiction, betrayal, and the frustration of broken trust.
Together we'll learn practical, scripture-and-science-based tools for managing your feelings, and we'll discover emotional freedom despite the chaos.
Using the A.D.D. method (Acknowledge, Discern, Decide) from Alicia's book Emotional Confidence, we’ll explore a simple, 3-step framework for processing challenging marriage emotions with God’s guidance so you can find clarity, peace, and hope in the midst of the struggle.
Reclaiming Your Identity and Purpose as a Woman by Eileen Noyes
When it comes to the challenges we face in marriage, it’s easy to get lost in the shadows of our spouse, his expectations and his desires — to the point of losing sight of who you really are.
Join me as we…
- anchor in our unchanging identity in Christ
- learn to hear God’s voice above the lies we’re told
- gain our voice back that is still honoring, strong and pleasing to our Father
Boundaries by the Book: Finding Freedom and Peace through Biblical Boundaries by Tanya Gioia
Are you struggling to say "no" without feeling guilty?
Do you feel overwhelmed by everyone’s expectations and unsure where to draw the line? You're not alone.
The Bible teaches us that boundaries are essential for healthy relationships—with ourselves, others, and God.
Sacred Self-Care: Partnering with God for Inner Healing During Difficult Seasons by Dafne Wiswell
It’s painful when the life you envisioned is not the one you are living, but God is right in the middle of your story.
In this session, you’ll learn how to hear from God to calm your fears, renew your mind, cultivate inner healing and trust that God is working in your story, even when the path looks different than you imagined.
With faith-filled encouragement and practical steps, you’ll leave feeling more at peace and equipped to move forward in healing and hope, even when your circumstances remain unchanged. God’s plans for you are not over—He is still making something beautiful out of your story.
Faithful Decisions: Navigating Decisions When Your Husband Doesn’t Pray by Alyssa Rahn
Making decisions in a marriage where your spouse isn’t spiritually aligned can feel like an uphill battle.
In this session, Alyssa Rahn will offer insight and encouragement on how to trust God when your husband is not praying, not walking in faith, or even an unbeliever.
Learn how to discern God's voice, lead with grace, and make choices that honor your values and the kingdom of God, even when you're standing alone in your spiritual journey.
The faith-based guidance we crave
Does God Still Love Me if My Marriage Fails? Finding Peace Amid Uncertainty by Brittney Phillips
Feeling uncertain about God’s love during a difficult marriage?
Discover how to release shame, lean into God’s promises, and reclaim your peace.
This faith-filled session will leave you encouraged, equipped, and reminded of your infinite worth in His eyes.
Battle Ready: How to Pray Powerfully Over Your Marriage in Life’s Hardest Seasons by Carlie Kercheval
Is your marriage struggling under the weight of addiction, infidelity, or betrayal?
In "Battle Ready: How to Pray Powerfully Over Your Marriage in Life’s Hardest Seasons," you’ll discover how to break through mindset blocks, build your faith in God’s promises, and use prayer as a powerful weapon to invite His healing into your marriage.
Walk away with practical tools, renewed hope, and a deeper connection to God’s plan for restoration. Your marriage may feel broken, but prayer is where transformation begins.
Join us to reclaim what the enemy has stolen.
Your Husband Is Not Your Enemy: We Must Identify the Real One by Dr. Nikki Harris
In this session Dr. Nikki will invite you into God's perspective on marriage while infusing Bible-based wisdom for how to handle conflict, struggle, and how to oppose the tactics of Satan against you, your husband and your marriage. You will walk away with the ability to identify the "real enemy" in your marriage.
Marriage is ordained by God, he has given a prescription for how we should operate in it. We must rely on Holy Spirit wisdom to navigate. In this presentation you will learn the following:
- How to identify the real enemy against your marriage
- How to engage in spiritual warfare and cooperate with the Holy Spirit to annihilate Your husband's flesh
- How to walk in love and forgiveness when he has wounded you
- How to trust your marriage to God
Finding God in Your Messy Marriage by Mukkove Johnson
It can seem like God is far away when your marriage is in trouble. But He's close. Right in the middle if you know how to find Him.
He is there with love and compassion, no condemnation or shame. He has hope and answers for you no matter what your husband chooses to do.
Knowing you can come to God in your mess brings strength, courage, and hope right in the middle of the mess.
Free guided online journal for wives of alcoholics
If you’ve been living with the quiet pain of a husband who drinks too much, you’ve probably asked yourself:
“Am I overreacting?”
“Is his drinking really a problem?”
“What can I even do if it is?”
The What Now Private Online Journal was created to help you stop spinning in those questions—and start finding real, honest answers.