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for wives of alcoholics exhausted from walking on eggshells and feeling like life is an emergency

 Join us from January 11th-31st to steady your heart and mind. — without overwhelm, huge time commitments, or complicated processes.

join the reset

You’ve spent too long carrying the weight of his chaos

 Every day feels like a battle to stay calm, to respond instead of react, to keep moving forward while anxiety, tension, and exhaustion take over. 


You replay old conflicts, anticipate triggers, and wake up wondering how you’ll survive the day….

…especially since you’re still expected to show up fully as a mom/employee/friend/etc in spite of the fact that you’re drowning in your husband’s addiction.


It doesn’t have to be this way. You deserve to reclaim moments of peace, confidence, and control — and it is possible in just a few minutes a day.

The help you need is HERE

 The 21-Day Reset: From Surviving to Steady is a guided, practical reset designed specifically for wives of alcoholics who are drained by fear, worry, and chaos.


Each day includes short micro-practices and gentle reflection prompts that help you:

  • Quiet racing thoughts and reduce overwhelm
  • Release tension in your body and mind
  • Pause before reacting to triggers
  • Rebuild calm, control, and emotional steadiness


Join the 21-Day Reset for Only $21

A Fresh Start for the New Year

2026 is upon us — and you don’t have to carry forward the stress, overwhelm, and emotional rollercoaster of 2025.


Imagine stepping into the  new year with calm, clarity, and confidence instead of exhaustion, anxiety, or fear. This year can be different — and it starts with choosing to show up for yourself today.


The 21-Day Reset gives you the tools, guidance, and support to break the cycle of overwhelm, reclaim your emotional steadiness, and start the year with hope and control.


This isn’t a New Year’s resolution. It’s a practical, faith-informed path to real change — one short practice at a time.

I need this help

Please note: this reset is discreetly billed as 'women's ministries'

This 21-Day Reset is designed for women just like you...

  • Simple, daily micro-practices you can complete in 5–10 minutes
  • Guided reflection prompts that help you process emotions safely
  • Supportive, empathetic language that meets you exactly where you are
  • Practices are designed to reduce overwhelm, reclaim calm, and give you emotional steadiness, even on the hardest days.


Why this works for YOU: 

  • Designed for women with zero time and energy: each practice takes just 5–10 minutes
  • Faith-informed approach: integrates gentle guidance with practical exercises
  • Small, consistent steps: avoids overwhelm and builds lasting change
  • You’re not alone: emails and reflection prompts keep you accountable

The 21-day reset was created just for you and your struggles as the wife of an alcoholic

I'm ready for a reset

When you join the 21-Day Reset, you’ll receive:

21 Daily Micro-Practices

6 Supportive Audio Teachings (2 per week)

21 Gentle Guided Reflection Prompts

 Each day, you’ll be guided through one small, focused practice designed to calm your nervous system, slow racing thoughts, and interrupt the constant sense of urgency that so many wives of alcoholics live with. 


 These are not complicated techniques or overwhelming assignments. 

They are simple, practical steps you can use even on days when you feel exhausted, triggered, or emotionally spent. 

21 Gentle Guided Reflection Prompts

6 Supportive Audio Teachings (2 per week)

21 Gentle Guided Reflection Prompts

 You’ll never be asked to “just journal” or figure out what to write on your own. 


Each day includes a specific, thoughtfully written reflection prompt that helps you process what you’re carrying without spiraling, overthinking, or judging yourself.


These prompts are designed to help you:


  • make sense of your emotions
  • create separation between fear and reality
  • feel more grounded and clear in your daily life

6 Supportive Audio Teachings (2 per week)

6 Supportive Audio Teachings (2 per week)

6 Supportive Audio Teachings (2 per week)

 Twice each week, you’ll also receive a short audio teaching to listen to. 


These audios gently explain what’s happening beneath the surface — why you feel on edge, why calm feels hard to access, and how these small practices are helping restore steadiness.


Think of these as grounding check-ins that help everything click into place.


You can listen while resting, driving, folding laundry, or simply sitting quietly — no extra effort required.

Integration & Encouragement Emails

Tools You Can Keep Using Long After the Reset Ends

6 Supportive Audio Teachings (2 per week)

You'll be guided the whole way through by emails that walk you through each step, ensuring that you never feel alone.

 

And at the end of each week, you’ll also receive a supportive email that helps you reflect on what’s shifting, normalize what you’re experiencing, and gently prepare you for the next week — without pressure or expectations.


They just help you show up for YOU, because sometimes you just need someone to hold your hand, tell you it's okay, and guide you through.

Tools You Can Keep Using Long After the Reset Ends

Tools You Can Keep Using Long After the Reset Ends

Tools You Can Keep Using Long After the Reset Ends

  

This reset isn’t just about these 21 days. 


The practices you’ll learn are tools you can return to during triggering moments, difficult conversations, restless nights, or days when anxiety starts to take over.


You’re building a foundation — not a checklist.


By the end of 21 days, you’ll have...

 

  • Learned to navigate stressful situations
  • Built confidence and clarity
  • Created a daily habit of self-care and reflection that actually sticks
  • Reduced feelings of confusion, hopelessness, and overwhelm
  • A renewed sense of empowerment and inner calm


Imagine waking up and facing your day with clarity and steadiness, instead of anxiety or exhaustion.

FAQs

Q: how much does it cost?

Q: how much of a time commitment is this?

Q: How do I access everything?

A:  The 21-Day Reset is priced at  only $21....

$1 per day


For way less than the price of a night out or a few coffees, you’ll get:

  • 21 days of expert-guided practices
  • Daily reflection prompts and encouragement
  • Tools that help you regain control, calm, and clarity


Compare that to:

  • The emotional toll of continuing on autopilot
  • Another year of feeling stressed, anxious, or reactive
  • Trying to figure it out alone


This $21 reset is designed to actually help you feel better.

Q: How do I access everything?

Q: how much of a time commitment is this?

Q: How do I access everything?

A: All of the components of the 21-Day Reset are housed on the same easy-to-use private platform.


 You would simply log in to the platform to access everything each day. 


It is very user-friendly and self-explanatory, so don't worry if you don't consider yourself 'tech-savvy'.


You will receive emails with links along the way too so you won't have to dig for anything. It will all be readily accessible, because I know you're overwhelmed enough.


This is easy peasy. Promise.

Q: how much of a time commitment is this?

Q: how much of a time commitment is this?

Q: how much of a time commitment is this?

A: You can go through each day's Reset contents in just a few minutes.


Just exchange a few minutes of scrolling with a few minutes of going through the reset materials and you will make progress.


YOU ARE WORTH IT!!

Q: Is the program private inside?

Q: HOW will the charge show up on my credit card/bank statement?

Q: how much of a time commitment is this?

A: Yes, this Reset program is private. 


Once you log into the program that area is completely your own, and is not shared by other users.


You can even answer your reflection prompts right in the portal to keep those answers private as well.

Q: HOW will the charge show up on my credit card/bank statement?

Q: HOW will the charge show up on my credit card/bank statement?

Q: HOW will the charge show up on my credit card/bank statement?

A: The charge will be discreetly billed as 'Women's Ministries'. 


If you are concerned about confidentiality it is also suggested that you sign up with an email address that only you have access to since that is where the log-in credentials for the Reset will be sent.

Q: will i still have access after january 31st?

Q: HOW will the charge show up on my credit card/bank statement?

Q: HOW will the charge show up on my credit card/bank statement?

A: Yes, you will retain access to the Reset materials in your private portal beyond the 21 days.


The timeline of January 11th - 31st is just when they will be initially released, and when the support emails will be sent.

Ready for a reset?

Yes, I need some relief

Spots are limited — so grab yours today.

Every day you wait is another day of overwhelm, stress, and emotional chaos. 


Begin the new year by taking these 21 days for yourself and begin building steadiness, clarity, and calm now.


You’ve already survived so much. You don’t have to stay stuck in overwhelm or anxiety. This reset gives you the guidance, tools, and support to take the first steps toward calm, clarity, and steadiness — in just 21 days.

join the reset for only $21
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